Privacy Policy
Last Updated: December 20, 2025
1. Information We Collect
Account Information:
- Name, email address, phone number
- Date of birth (for age verification)
- Profile photos and bio
- Government ID (for verification only - not stored)
Usage Data:
- Messages sent/received (encrypted)
- Matches and interactions
- Device information and IP address
2. Age Verification Process
We verify all users are 18+ through:
- Government ID scan (processed, not stored)
- Live video verification
- Third-party age verification APIs
ID documents are never stored. We only retain a verification status (verified/not verified) and verification date.
3. How We Use Your Data
- Provide and improve our dating services
- Match you with compatible users
- Verify your identity and age
- Detect and prevent fraud, bots, and AI usage
- Process payments and subscriptions
- Comply with legal obligations
4. Data Security
- All messages are end-to-end encrypted
- Passwords are hashed using bcrypt
- Data transmitted over TLS 1.3
- Regular security audits
- AWS infrastructure with SOC 2 compliance
5. Data Sharing
We NEVER sell your personal data.
We only share data with:
- Payment processors (Stripe) for billing
- Age verification services
- Law enforcement when legally required
6. Your Rights (CCPA/GDPR)
You have the right to:
- Access - Request a copy of your data
- Delete - Request deletion of your account and data
- Portability - Export your data in standard format
- Opt-out - Unsubscribe from marketing emails
To exercise these rights, email: privacy@youandinotai.com
7. Data Retention
- Active accounts: Data retained while account is active
- Deleted accounts: Data purged within 30 days
- Legal holds: Data may be retained if required by law
8. Children's Privacy (COPPA)
You And I, Not AI is strictly for users 18 and older. We do not knowingly collect data from anyone under 18. If we discover an underage user, their account and all data will be immediately deleted.
9. Contact
Data Controller: Trash or Treasure Online Recycler LLC
Email: privacy@youandinotai.com
Address: Florida, United States
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